Nelsons daughter and son-in-law accused of sex abuse

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Re: Nelsons daughter and son-in-law accused of sex abuse

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Rosebud wrote:So, the existence of reports of the administration of drugs or human excrement is not therefore an indication that the whole or even those parts of the reports should be discredited or are fantastical.


If it's the 1980s and those reports come to light at the hands of a therapist who believes in "recovered memories" and that such things are going on in local neighborhoods, and there is no other corroborating evidence other than the claims of the children after they have spoken to the therapist, then they should absolutely be discredited.
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Rosebud wrote:Judge won’t dismiss lawsuit against Warren Jeffs, FLDS Church claiming ‘ritualistic sex abuse’

Fox 13: https://fox13now.com/2018/10/20/judge-w ... sex-abuse/


Because the term "ritualistic" is pretty broad, I think we need to keep in mind what the lawsuit actually alleges:


30.

Plaintiff was subject to this horrific religious doctrine and religious rituals.

31.

This horrific religious doctrine and religious rituals as performed on Plaintiff consisted of Plaintiff, beginning at the age of 8, having a bag placed over her head, led out of her house by representatives of the Defendants, placed in a vehicle, and being driven to an unknown location.

32.

Plaintiff was given a number by which she was known during these religious rituals and she was never called by name, but only by number.

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Once reaching the unknown location, the bag would be taken off Plaintiff’s head and she would be disrobed and was required to engage in vaginal, oral, and other types of sexual acts with Defendants Warren S. Jeffs, Lyle Jeffs, Seth Jeffs, Wendell LeRoy Nielsen, or Defendant Does, while Warren S. Jeffs, Lyle Jeffs, Seth Jeffs, Wendell LeRoy Nielsen, Defendant Does and others watched as part of the ritual.


https://www.scribd.com/document/368036225/FLDS-Lawsuit


This seems to me to be very different from the rituals described in the 1980s. (The complaint alleges that the ritualized abuse started among the FLDS in 1998). I don't think we should conflate the two.
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I don't know.... this seems pretty similar to what I've heard mainstream Mormon victims from Salt Lake, Davis and Utah counties report.

Namely: Removal from home and safety, being called different names, other kids around, several adults, sexual acts with adults and kids, etc., inclusion of religious storylines and/or doctrines at times, etc. lots of physical pain intentionally inflicted, etc.

in my opinion, the problem is that "ritual," "Satanic," etc. are both red herrings. Doesn't matter what idiotic ideas perpetrators may or may not have had or if, how and when perpetrators used religious concepts as part of the abuse. In the end, it's all a fairly simple and very disgusting crime. It's child abuse, plain and simple.

I don't think we need to conflate anything because there's nothing to conflate.
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Hi Mary, there was some discussion earlier about the direction of the 1985 Attorney general's report, and whether or not it implied there was evidence of ritual abuse. I noticed that in your timeline, you listed the reference and have now quoted only this part:
1995, – Attorney General Report: Ritual Crime in the State of Utah. Investigation, Analysis and a look forward

– Testimony only evidence. No evidence of homicide. However, [p3] outlines

“In another case, three adult female children recalled memories of Satanic sexual abuse that occurred while they were very young. The victims, in separate interviews discussed robed ceremonies, alters, candles, animal sacrifices and extreme physical and sexual abuse. Since their recollections appeared to show some consistency, an in-depth investigation was launched. At the conclusion of the investigation, the suspects were interviewed. Both the mother and the father admitted to serious sexual and physical crimes against the children and named several other individuals who were also involved. The case, however could not be prosecuted because the statute of limitations had run. The crimes occurred over 25 years ago, but this case does indicate that serious sexual and physical abuse can happen and that it is perpetuated by those who cloak their crimes in ritualistic activity.”

[ https://digitallibrary.utah.gov/awweb/a ... item=72457 ]

[ http://hellminusone.com/ ]




With the above quote, you picked out a single outlier that the report discussed, of which there were no other similar instances discussed, and are inaccurately representing it as though it was the conclusion of the report. In my opinion, the report actually could be summarized as concluding the exact opposite of what your isolated quote implies.

Could you explain why those paragraphs, out of the entire report, were the ones you are choosing to include in your timeline?
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Rosebud wrote:I don't know.... this seems pretty similar to what I've heard mainstream Mormon victims from Salt Lake, Davis and Utah counties report.

Namely: Removal from home and safety, being called different names, other kids around, several adults, sexual acts with adults and kids, etc., inclusion of religious storylines and/or doctrines at times, etc. lots of physical pain intentionally inflicted, etc.

in my opinion, the problem is that "ritual," "Satanic," etc. are both red herrings. Doesn't matter what idiotic ideas perpetrators may or may not have had or if, how and when perpetrators used religious concepts as part of the abuse. In the end, it's all a fairly simple and very disgusting crime. It's child abuse, plain and simple.

I don't think we need to conflate anything because there's nothing to conflate.


It seems to me that it is very different from the allegations made in the 1980s. Sure, all abuse is bad. But there is a world of difference between what I see alleged in the FLDS complaint and what I see alleged from back in the '80s among populations of LDS. The cases in the '80s involving Barbara Snow alleged bizarre rituals including human sacrifce, eating feces, etc. And the rituals themselves bore little resemblance to LDS theology. In the case of the FLDS, we can tie the origin of the rituals involved to the head of the sect. They are alleged to be an outgrowth of the longer standing practice of men having sex with underaged girls. Further, they are alleged to be an extension of the religious doctrines of the FLDS sect. Unless we're just going to talk about all of the incidents we've been looking at with the generic labels "sex abuse," then I think it makes sense to differentiate the FLDS lawsuit from the allegations in the 1980s.
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Res Ipsa wrote:
Rosebud wrote:I don't know.... this seems pretty similar to what I've heard mainstream Mormon victims from Salt Lake, Davis and Utah counties report.

Namely: Removal from home and safety, being called different names, other kids around, several adults, sexual acts with adults and kids, etc., inclusion of religious storylines and/or doctrines at times, etc. lots of physical pain intentionally inflicted, etc.

in my opinion, the problem is that "ritual," "Satanic," etc. are both red herrings. Doesn't matter what idiotic ideas perpetrators may or may not have had or if, how and when perpetrators used religious concepts as part of the abuse. In the end, it's all a fairly simple and very disgusting crime. It's child abuse, plain and simple.

I don't think we need to conflate anything because there's nothing to conflate.


It seems to me that it is very different from the allegations made in the 1980s. Sure, all abuse is bad. But there is a world of difference between what I see alleged in the FLDS complaint and what I see alleged from back in the '80s among populations of LDS. The cases in the '80s involving Barbara Snow alleged bizarre rituals including human sacrifce, eating feces, etc. And the rituals themselves bore little resemblance to LDS theology. In the case of the FLDS, we can tie the origin of the rituals involved to the head of the sect. They are alleged to be an outgrowth of the longer standing practice of men having sex with underaged girls. Further, they are alleged to be an extension of the religious doctrines of the FLDS sect. Unless we're just going to talk about all of the incidents we've been looking at with the generic labels "sex abuse," then I think it makes sense to differentiate the FLDS lawsuit from the allegations in the 1980s.


My thought is that it's a mistake to associate reports from mainstream Mormon communities solely with mainstream Mormon religious belief. I would also not assume that all people who may have been part of the alleged crimes were also posing as active Mormons -- some would have been and some wouldn't have been. Some could have been "anti-Mormons" or "never-Mormons."

The FLDS people tend to keep to themselves, isolated from other communities. Mainstream Mormons do not, or at least not as much. This difference in the two cultures does not necessarily mean there was a major difference in the techniques used to commit the alleged crimes, the human psychological vulnerabilities that were allegedly intentionally exploited in order to commit the crimes, or the ultimate benefits alleged perpetrators received and alleged victims suffered during the alleged crimes.

That said, I have heard reports of alleged rituals from mainstream LDS alleged victims that do resemble LDS theology.... especially the use of rooms that resemble the rooms in the older temples, and the use of the temple ceremony, sacred words from the veil ceremony, and going through the veil to the Celestial kingdom to have sex with God.

And I have heard victims report that their alleged perpetrators allegedly dressed up as Santa Clause.

I see it all as pretty much the same. I don't care if perps dressed up in white robes or a red fuzzy hat with a white pom pom on top. No matter what alleged perps allegedly dress in, the logical purpose would have been to discredit victim reports if victims ever remembered. And it's not at all uncommon for people to "get off" sexually through role play. Apologies for the crude words, but this isn't all that far fetched.

As for the human sacrifice, my guess, based on what I've observed, would be that a likely possibility is that alleged perpetrators convinced small children they were killing babies when in actuality, dolls were used. I would guess, based on common perpetrator patterns, that the murder of "babies" was used as a shaming tactic. "Look how evil you are! You're a murderer. If you tell anyone, you and your whole family will go to jail for the rest of your lives!" etc.

But when this sort of thing was reported by adults who, while they were remembering the incidents that occurred while they were small children, still believed they had actually killed babies (when they hadn't). My guess would be that some of the therapists, who were themselves traumatized just by listening to all of this and believing it and were not necessarily the most skilled critical thinkers in the world, took the reports too literally and started freaking out and making all sorts of wild and false accusations. This further discredited victims, who were, for all intents and purposes, very confused themselves. And rightly so. Why wouldn't they be?

Thus, valid proof of true false memories. But that didn't make the whole kit and caboodle false.

For what it's worth, I haven't ever heard a victim report killing an older child or an adult. That again leads me to think that it's possible that doll babies could have been used. A doll adult? Less likely and likely less convincing -- even to a small child. Adult dolls would be harder to come by and harder hide as well. But I'm moving into the realm of speculation here for sure....

As for the reports of children being forced to kill kittens, that could have really happened, in my opinion. "Look, you're evil. You murdered a kitten! Now squeeze it and drink its blood." Sorry, but there are a lot of very horrible people in this world who really will treat small children this way. It sucks to consider taking this seriously, but if there's any reality to it, not taking it seriously means completely discrediting and abandoning the people who need the most support. in my opinion, good people need to at least give this possibility a few moments' thought.
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No matter what alleged perps allegedly dress in, the logical purpose would have been to discredit victim reports if victims ever remembered. And it's not at all uncommon for people to "get off" sexually through roll play. Apologies for the crude words, but this isn't all that far fetched.

As for the human sacrifice, my guess, based on what I've observed, would be that a likely possibility is that alleged perpetrators convinced small children they were killing babies when in actuality, dolls were used. I would guess, based on common perpetrator patterns, that the murder of "babies" was used as a shaming tactic.


It sounds like you have determined, despite all professional assessments to the contrary, that Satanic ritual abuse did occur in those Utah neighborhoods in the 80's, and therefore you are forced into the position of having to explain how it could have happened when there is absolutely no evidence that it did.

You mentioned once before Occam's razor; this would be a good time to apply that type of thinking. Which requires the fewest number of assumptions,

(1) there is no physical evidence that Satanic ritual abuse occurred, therefore professionals conclude that no Satanic ritual abuse occurred; or

(2) there is no physical evidence that Satanic ritual abuse occurred, therefore some people who are sure that it occurred anyway conclude that abusers must have faked the Satanic ritual abuses, albeit still with no evidence of the fakery.

Really though, there seems a concerted effort in the threads about this to avoid talking about the most likely situation, that some therapists at the time exacerbated a very bad situation with some very un-professional techniques.
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Oh, and reports of the alleged use of "new names" are common among alleged mainstream Mormon child victims. New names instead of the numbers allegedly used by the FLDS.
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This seems an appropriate time for something cinepro posted on a similar thread on MD&D:
I think you're in a feedback loop now.

Even after 19 pages of discussing this, you appear to have absolutely no understanding of what was happening with Barbara Snow at that time.

Please, if you only do one thing today, read this paper:

Wrongful Conviction and the Moral Panic About Organized Child Abuse: National and International Perspectives
[ http://ascdwc.com/wp-content/uploads/20 ... stein1.pdf ]

It lays out the worldwide context to what Barbara Snow was doing in Utah at the time.

But since I'm assuming a lot of people won't read the whole thing, here is an important point to that hasn't been brought up yet:
Although a number of suspects confessed initially to the accusations against them, these confessions were not supported by evidence. There are many reasons why suspects might confess falsely to a crime they did not commit. These reasons can include torture, brutality, threats, fear, fatigue, and deception by the interrogator (Huff, Rattner et al. Grometstein Moral panic about organized child abuse Page 18 of 34 1996; Huff 2004). The chances of a false confession are increased when there is great community pressure for the solving of a crime (Huff, Rattner et al. 1996); in a moral panic, the concept of “innocent until proven guilty” is often suspended. To this we may add that defendants who demand a trial of the charges against them may suffer the so - called trial penalty, in which a convicted defendant is sentenced more harshly because he or she is viewed as refusing to take responsibility through a plea of guilty (Givelber 2000). In the organized abuse cases, convicted defendants in the United States were sentenced to such long sentences (e.g., 165 years in the case of Frank Fuster, Country Walk Babysitting, in Miami, Florida), that other defense lawyers routinely urged their clients to plead guilty. In the climate of public opinion prevailing during a moral panic, even an upright citizen with an unblemished record facing such heinous charges can expect a harsh response from judge and jury.


(Emphasis added)
http://www.mormondialogue.org/topic/710 ... 1209864226
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Another big problem I see with all of this is that it, from a public standpoint, has turned into the "therapists" vs. the "Satanists."

People who are attracted to the profession of therapist are generally very gentle, sensitive people. They're not all ready to take on the media or harsh criticism. Unless they went on to get a PhD, they weren't likely trained in scientific or critical thinking. Add to that the "hypnotherapists" who got involved... the people who didn't even get a master's degree.... and wow... what a mess.

As a group, therapists aren't going to push back hard publicly. They're going to take the hits quietly and feel hurt. This is a generalization, of course, but i don't think it's too much of a stretch to say that people who are attracted attracted to the professions of social worker and counselor have some basic differences from people who are generally attracted to the professions of attorney, police officer, or investigative reporter.

We don't know a lot, but one thing I think we can fairly accurately assert is that this situation was over most therapists' heads. Sticking with the "therapist" vs. "Satanist" narrative seems myopic to me.
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