Some Schmo wrote:Lemmie wrote:So, no panicking, but the amount of effort necessary to ratchet up to a safer environment is costly and time-consuming. No one seems to mind, but this may well have a lasting impact on behavior after this crisis passes, which would be a good thing, in my opinion.
I had the exact same thought. We should come out the other side of this stronger, assuming it doesn't kill us.
Interesting point, and best wishes that we all survive!!
Speaking of changed behavior, last night my spouse and I went to a new small place, one we chose deliberately because it is less crowded and we can easily get a 2 person table that is a decent social distance from everyone else. (Plus the food is good so it’s not like we are sacrificing much.)
We sat down, and the first thing my husband did was offer me some of his ever-present hand sanitizer, after which he left the bottle on the table. A friend walked past and extended his hand. We both instinctively shook hands but immediately after he passed by our table I said “we might have to stop that,” and my husband agreed, and then offered me his hand sanitizer again.
Later in the evening, our 30-something waiter struck up a conversation, noting the possibility of public school closings. I said that in our town, it would be not so much for the kids but for the grandparents and great-grandparents, noting that its common for several generations to live in one location.
He said, you know, you’re right, my parents are in their 60s, I really don’t want to be infecting them if I get it. My husband, in his 60s, looked at me with the slightest eye roll. I don’t think he feels THAT old, yet.
Then our server asked, “has there ever been another event that has changed our behavior as much as it seems like this will?” Of course, both of us immediately said, “9-11,” but then we realized this kid was probably not even in high school when that happened. He seemed a little nonplussed at first, but as we discussed it further, it seemed like history came alive for him and he understood.
Sometimes, learning about history comes best by interacting with those who lived through it.