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It is not uncommon for them to say that they have never been happier, and that they are better off now that they have rejected that which alleges to bring them great blessings. Seemingly, they prefer their telestial or worldly life and blessings to the terrestrial or celestial life and blessings they once might of had. Why would that change over time, even over an eternity of time?
Hi Wade, good to see you glad you are well...
It is not uncommon for those giving up the ridiculousness of Mormonism to become happier and more loving and attending to this life. If that happiness doesn't change for all eternity, I can only see that as a very good thing. We are here now, not there then, heaven can wait. We are alive here and find it delightful to enjoy where we are at. Our eyes have opened up to the beauty of here and now on earth. That is a terrific blessing and we are using it fully.
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Philo Sofee wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 1:29 pm
Wade Englund
It is not uncommon for them to say that they have never been happier, and that they are better off now that they have rejected that which alleges to bring them great blessings. Seemingly, they prefer their telestial or worldly life and blessings to the terrestrial or celestial life and blessings they once might of had. Why would that change over time, even over an eternity of time?
Hi Wade, good to see you glad you are well...
It is not uncommon for those giving up the ridiculousness of Mormonism to become happier and more loving and attending to this life. If that happiness doesn't change for all eternity, I can only see that as a very good thing. We are here now, not there then, heaven can wait. We are alive here and find it delightful to enjoy where we are at. Our eyes have opened up to the beauty of here and now on earth. That is a terrific blessing and we are using it fully.
Hello. Good to see you also.

Thanks for confirming my point. One man's happiness is another man's ridiculousness, and vice versa. One man's up, is another man's down. Each to their own, with little chance of either perspective inverting, whether in this life or the next, particularly for those strongly committed to their respective positions.

Even those who currently disbelieve in a spiritual realm beyond physical existence, and who then go on to suddenly discover there is life after physical death, may still reject spiritual belief for the same reason they reject it on earth, even after receiving so many witnesses and being exposed to so much evidence here. This is because they have died spiritually, and can't be "resurrected" from that death because of their staunch unbelief. But, no doubt, they will be happy with their telestial existence.

Actually, while I believe the complete resistance to spiritual belief will be the case for many, I don't believe it will be for all. It is not uncommon for various life/afterlife events to awaken a desire to believe, and thereby prompt a change.

Thanks, Wade Englund
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Marcus wrote:
Fri Jan 20, 2023 5:01 am
wenglund wrote:
Fri Jan 20, 2023 4:12 am
What is in dispute here is what I had in mind when I mentioned the "high risk of [things] turning counterproductive" and why I thought it "wise not to disclose such things in a less receptive environment."

Since I am “the ultimate expert and authority on what I had in mind, then I would know best, if not solely, what was the correct answer to what I had in mind, differing opinions notwithstanding. :o 8-)

Thanks, Wade Englund
No, there is nothing like that in dispute here because there is what you had in mind, followed by my assessment of what your comment sounded like when you mentioned the "high risk of [things] turning counterproductive" and what it sounded like when you expressed that you “thought it ‘wise not to disclose such things in a less receptive environment.’ “

:lol: And since I am “the ultimate expert and authority” on what your statement sounded like to me, “then I would know best, if not solely, what was the correct answer to what” your statement sounded like to me, “differing opinions notwithstanding.” :roll:

Now stop giving me such great and spacious openings to correct your presumptions and just converse like a human being, because imitating your atrocious grammar is giving me a headache! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Okay.

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wenglund wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 9:17 pm
Philo Sofee wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 1:29 pm


Hi Wade, good to see you glad you are well...
It is not uncommon for those giving up the ridiculousness of Mormonism to become happier and more loving and attending to this life. If that happiness doesn't change for all eternity, I can only see that as a very good thing. We are here now, not there then, heaven can wait. We are alive here and find it delightful to enjoy where we are at. Our eyes have opened up to the beauty of here and now on earth. That is a terrific blessing and we are using it fully.
Hello. Good to see you also.

Thanks for confirming my point. One man's happiness is another man's ridiculousness, and vice versa. One man's up, is another man's down. Each to their own, with little chance of either perspective inverting, whether in this life or the next, particularly for those strongly committed to their respective positions.

Even those who currently disbelieve in a spiritual realm beyond physical existence, and who then go on to suddenly discover there is life after physical death, may still reject spiritual belief for the same reason they reject it on earth, even after receiving so many witnesses and being exposed to so much evidence here. This is because they have died spiritually, and can't be "resurrected" from that death because of their staunch unbelief. But, no doubt, they will be happy with their telestial existence.

Actually, while I believe the complete resistance to spiritual belief will be the case for many, I don't believe it will be for all. It is not uncommon for various life/afterlife events to awaken a desire to believe, and thereby prompt a change.

Thanks, Wade Englund

I’ve been seeing more of this kind of relativism thinking from Mormons. I guess it’s the only logical place to retreat to when all the facts objectively go against the claims of Mormonism. There is no Zarahemla, there were no Hebrews in the pre Colombian Americas.

So Mormons are left simply saying “it’s all relative and subjective and there is no objective truth to anything.”
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drumdude wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 9:34 pm
wenglund wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 9:17 pm


Hello. Good to see you also.

Thanks for confirming my point. One man's happiness is another man's ridiculousness, and vice versa. One man's up, is another man's down. Each to their own, with little chance of either perspective inverting, whether in this life or the next, particularly for those strongly committed to their respective positions.

Even those who currently disbelieve in a spiritual realm beyond physical existence, and who then go on to suddenly discover there is life after physical death, may still reject spiritual belief for the same reason they reject it on earth, even after receiving so many witnesses and being exposed to so much evidence here. This is because they have died spiritually, and can't be "resurrected" from that death because of their staunch unbelief. But, no doubt, they will be happy with their telestial existence.

Actually, while I believe the complete resistance to spiritual belief will be the case for many, I don't believe it will be for all. It is not uncommon for various life/afterlife events to awaken a desire to believe, and thereby prompt a change.

Thanks, Wade Englund

I’ve been seeing more of this kind of relativism thinking from Mormons. I guess it’s the only logical place to retreat to when all the facts objectively go against the claims of Mormonism. There is no Zarahemla, there were no Hebrews in the pre Colombian Americas.

So Mormons are left simply saying “it’s all relative and subjective and there is no objective truth to anything.”
And meanwhile the hubris of the spiritual death promotes real pain and sacrifice in the now.
The church is immoral. “There is something fundamentally immoral to presenting a narrative that people build their entire lives upon. They decide what to do with their education, how much money to give, who to marry, when to marry, how many kids to have, what professions to pursue… There’s this massive amount of decisions that you make, you know in a finite life, and to base that life on a narrative, when not only the narrative isn’t what it claims to be, when leaders know the narrative isn’t what it claims to be, and intentionally - for as long as they could - withheld the information that would allow people to make an informed decision about how they spend their finite time and resources – that’s profoundly immoral.”
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wenglund wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 9:17 pm
Philo Sofee wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 1:29 pm


Hi Wade, good to see you glad you are well...
It is not uncommon for those giving up the ridiculousness of Mormonism to become happier and more loving and attending to this life. If that happiness doesn't change for all eternity, I can only see that as a very good thing. We are here now, not there then, heaven can wait. We are alive here and find it delightful to enjoy where we are at. Our eyes have opened up to the beauty of here and now on earth. That is a terrific blessing and we are using it fully.
Hello. Good to see you also.

Thanks for confirming my point. One man's happiness is another man's ridiculousness, and vice versa. One man's up, is another man's down. Each to their own, with little chance of either perspective inverting, whether in this life or the next, particularly for those strongly committed to their respective positions.

Even those who currently disbelieve in a spiritual realm beyond physical existence, and who then go on to suddenly discover there is life after physical death, may still reject spiritual belief for the same reason they reject it on earth, even after receiving so many witnesses and being exposed to so much evidence here. This is because they have died spiritually, and can't be "resurrected" from that death because of their staunch unbelief. But, no doubt, they will be happy with their telestial existence.

Actually, while I believe the complete resistance to spiritual belief will be the case for many, I don't believe it will be for all. It is not uncommon for various life/afterlife events to awaken a desire to believe, and thereby prompt a change.

Thanks, Wade Englund
My emphasis above

Wade, can you give us an example of:
  • someone who has discovered there is life after physical death
  • an afterlife event that has been shown to "awaken a desire ... prompt a change"
Or are you talking only about people who have come to believe such.
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I don’t think the process to which you refer is a reliable one. And the bill of Mormon claims are unreasonable when viewing the evidence which suggests the inward process that has rewarded you, in whichever way that may be, is quite likely a prolonged case of confirmation bias. But if not I’d be interested in an explanation that demonstrates to one degree or another how the process can be tested.
Confirmation bias is unavoidable to varying degrees, no matter what epistemological or developmental methods are employed, be they secular or religious.

However, functional methods (processes) will naturally include elements to help minimize or surmount confirmation bias where possible.

Since confirmation bias merely confirms what is already known or believed, and represents the status quo, an epistemological or developmental methodology that includes the element of growth in knowledge and faith, can reasonably be considered as functional because it surmounts the confirmation bias.

The process outlined in Alma 32, particularly when used in conjunction with Moroni 10, and as employed in relation the restored gospel of Christ, contains an element of growth (it is actually THE key element), and thus may be considered functional.

Said another way, epistemological and developmental methodologies (processes) can reasonably be considered as functional if they produce the intended growth, development, and progress. The continued progression of millions of faithful members of the restored gospel of Christ attest to the functionality of Alma 32, Moroni 10, and the gospel.

In terms of reliability, it helps to understand that Alma 32 et. al, is more of tests of the "testers" (i.e. the testing of people who have employed Alma 32 and Moroni 10 in relation to the gospel) than it is a test of spiritual things. And, these tests of the "testers" are ongoing throughout each stage of development unto maturation in the gospel.

As would be expect of any functional epistemological and developmental process in which multiple humans are involved, the results of the testing and development will be varied. This is self-evident in secular education systems and businesses throughout the world.

Likewise, to varying degrees within the church, many members continue to pass or even ace their series tests, or have sought to improve when their scores have been less than desired, and as such, they continue to progress in faith; while others end up failing or flunking at various stages of development, and over various length of time they may end up just going through the motions and stagnating. Some even drop out of the process.

Given the functionality of the process, it is reasonable to conclude that the varied results aren't indicative of the lack of reliability of the process, but rather the lack of reliability of those being "tested" by the process.

As I see it, there are at least two key differentiators between those who continue to develop as contrasted with those who stagnate or drop out. They include: 1) varied levels of awareness that the "testers" are the ones being tested (some mistakenly assume that it is God, and His existence, that is being tested, whereas, ironically, they are the ones being tested by God); and 2) diverse understanding as to the intended objective or end result of the process (some mistakenly assume that "truth", or their understanding thereof, is the intended end result, whereas, coming to Christ and becoming like him, is the actual objective).

Thanks, Wade Englund
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drumdude wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 9:34 pm
I’ve been seeing more of this kind of relativism thinking from Mormons. I guess it’s the only logical place to retreat to when all the facts objectively go against the claims of Mormonism. There is no Zarahemla, there were no Hebrews in the pre Colombian Americas.

So Mormons are left simply saying “it’s all relative and subjective and there is no objective truth to anything.”
You are confusing relativism with me acknowledging that there are divergent points of view. Nowhere in that acknowledgement did I suggest that each of the divergent points of view were true. At most, I spoke to relative conviction and suitability to various kingdoms rather than to relativity of truth.

You also confused your opinion with facts in relation to no Zarahemla or Hebrew in pre-Columbia America. These negatives cannot objectively be proven as fact. At best, they can only be subjectively "proven" in the sense that one may opine that the burden of proving the positive hasn't been met.

Perhaps your penchant for confusion also contributed to your falsely assuming "all the facts objectively go against the claims of Mormonism."

Whatever the case, this is all beside the point I was making.

Thanks, Wade Englund
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malkie wrote:
Sat Jan 21, 2023 10:12 pm
Wade, can you give us an example of:
  • someone who has discovered there is life after physical death
  • an afterlife event that has been shown to "awaken a desire ... prompt a change"
Or are you talking only about people who have come to believe such.
1) There are a number of scriptural accounts (New Testament, Book of Mormon, and D&C) where, after his death, Jesus Christ appeared to many people living on earth. There are also scriptural accounts where Moses, Elijah, Moroni, Peter, James, and John appeared to men on earth sometime afer their physical death. The spirits of the dead were also seen rising from their graves by many shortly after Jesus' death. And, prophets have also seen visions of loved-ones and others who have passed on. Etc.

Also, if the afterlife is a reality (I firmly believe that it is), then those on earth who disbelieve in life after death, will suddenly discover that there is life after death. I don't know of any accounts where this has been documented.

2) I took your second question two ways:

a) There are scriptural accounts of people living on earth who experienced changes prompted by the appearance of those who were dead--most notably Christ's appearance to people living on the American continent shortly after his death, and Christ's appearance to Saul, who was given the name of Paul.

b) As for those who have died who thereafter experienced an awakening and change, I can't think of any explicit examples. However, it is strongly implied in revelations regarding the gathering of Israel on both sides of the veil as well as the preaching of the gospel to, and the redemption of, the dead--particularly D&C 137 and 138.

Thanks, Wade Englund-
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Wade Englund
Hello. Good to see you also.

Thanks for confirming my point. One man's happiness is another man's ridiculousness,
That was not my point at all. You entirely misunderstood me if this is what you came away with.
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