I Have Questions wrote: ↑Mon Aug 25, 2025 5:11 pm
MG 2.0 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 25, 2025 4:54 pm
Did she or did she not wrestle with her feeling in regards to bodily autonomy and the pressures of conforming to church standards regarding sexuality, dress, and behavior?
Regards,
MG
Feel free to quote her, like I did.
"I think [Mormonism] owns your body, especially as a woman... I had the bishop come in and give a lesson about modesty... He said when girls show even a little bit too much skin, that men and boys picture them naked... That really trained me to despise my body because purely by having a female body you're sinning."
Mormon Stories interview, "How to Leave the Mormon Church" Pt. 1 (timestamp ~22:20 to 27:00)
"It really made me feel a sense of self-repulsion because if my body will do that to a man then that means my body is a sin and that's a sin I can't control because I cannot become disembodied."
Mormon Stories interview, "How to Leave the Mormon Church" Pt. 1
"There’s no right or wrong... it’s all you, what you want to do,"
Mormonish Podcast episode discussing the book "How To Leave the Mormon Church".
In order to quote Alyssa Grenfell I used search in order to find information. I'm being up front on this. This may, obviously, be a 'trap' by IHQ in order to catch me in the act of using online search in order to answer his question. As I said earlier, I have only listened to one or two of her actual podcast episodes. Can't keep up with everything!
It is fairly well documented that many of the younger people that are leaving the LDS Church are doing so primarily for reasons having to do with societal influences and reasons of 'bodily autonomy'. If those same people spent time looking seriously into Mormon Theology and thought about the teachings of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Plan of Salvation/Exaltation rather than 'caving in' to outside influences, I think more of them would find their way IN the church rather than outside the church. This is my personal observation and opinion.
Regards,
MG