The discussion was moving along productively, sharp but respectful, until the moderator stepped in and fabricated a position the OP never took. Claiming the OP “presumably” wants a total ban on gender-affirming care isn’t interpretation; it’s invention.canpakes wrote: ↑Tue Oct 14, 2025 1:12 pmSo far, the only outlier seems to be the OP, which presumably suggests that there must be an absolute and total ban on gender-affirming care. Everyone else who has offered an opinion states that surgery should wait until the age of consent, but that this guideline should not be absolute.
A discussion can survive disagreement, even hard disagreement, but it cannot survive falsification. When a moderator lies or misrepresents a poster, it derails the entire exchange. Instead of debating ideas, participants are forced to defend themselves against accusations and distractions. That’s not moderation; that’s manipulation.
The ethical foundation of moderation is impartiality; the practical foundation is accuracy. Violate either, and what was a conversation becomes performance and narrative management dressed up as dialogue.
One's option is to just let it slide. Another option is the meet the conditions as presented. Moderators can't be put on the foe list and they can't be muted so best to just address it directly, I s'pose.