Yikes. As far as I know I’ve not been requiem’d.
For me it is important to not have some human between me and God, whether it be Joseph, or getting through the veil because I proved to the fellow on the other side that I could remember a ritual, or Nelson or whoever the prophet is now, or a Catholic priest and the magic incantation that only he can can utter to achieve transubstantiation.
I suppose I’d be willing to lose everything over that personal access, but I’ve never really been tested on that.
If my family said it was the Catholic Church and continued familial access or never talking to them again, it would be a difficult decision.
That situation and the personal impact, as I’ve known to be experienced by some ex-Mormons, has my empathy.