I let this comment sit in draft for a while, to let it run around in my mind, and have modified it a bit before posting.I Have Questions wrote: ↑Mon Oct 27, 2025 8:30 amInteraction with MG is always a waste of time if you are expecting anything other than to go round in circles with MG refusing to accept anything other than he’s right and you’re wrong. He’s special and you’re not. And he will never, ever, acknowledge when he’s made a mistake or that you’ve demonstrated a flaw in his thinking. And look out if you’re a female poster. You’re in for a whole load of disparaging sexism.
Now that’s the picture I’ve built up based on his interactions on this board. You’ve met him. Have you any reason to believe his behaviour in real life is similar to his behaviour on this board?
About 10 years ago I met a much kinder and gentler MG than I currently see here, and (dare I say) someone I thought was sincerely arguing in good faith. My wife, as a TBM, had a similar impression. Actually, I have to say that I was delighted with the opportunity to meet him, if only for a short time.
If I recall correctly, it was a couple of years later that I first told MG that I thought that his way of addressing other posters was unnecessarily and inappropriately harsh, and that he was not (in my opinion) being a good example of what his religion taught. I've seen nothing since then to change my mind.
On several occasions since then I've driven past MG's home town, but have never felt the urge to try to meet in person again, and it makes me sad that I feel that way.
Sorry - TMI? - I'm not usually very fond of exposing my own inner thoughts, and wonder if I'm oversharing here.