Greta Christina wrote:Personal revulsion should not translate into moral revulsion...
This was the crux of my epiphany about SSM. Realizing this should-be obvious idea is what transformed me from a primitive, religiously influenced homophobic bigot into the accepting member of humanity I am today.
I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of homophobia that exists these days is rooted in a lack of understanding that most basic principle. I actually think most people don't even realize that they're doing it (that is, translating their personal revulsion into moral revulsion) and pretend they have rational reasons to oppose homosexuality.