grindael wrote:I'm sorry but I thought Jersey was pretty spot on... she said Mormon Discussions is broken up into two sections:
Mormon Discussions (Celestial, Terrestrial, Telestial) and Non-Mormon Discussions (Paradise and Prison).
The conflicts between NL and Shulem happened in Terrestrial threads. My guess is that NL posted in Celestial and saw that Shulem had also posted there but didn't read his posts and thought the worst that he's randomly posting attack posts in the CK, got fed up and posted this ultimatum.
Like I said, perception is reality around here. Shulem's been giving him crap in Terrestrial, he goes up to CK to post, see's his screen name and basically says eff this. Makes his ultimatum post.
Put yourself in his place, he returns and his post is gone. He's already ticked to start with. He has to search his own posts or sift through forums until he finds it. Some posters automatically think their post was deleted wholesale. Either way, they're not going to like that they can't find their post, see it as dismissive, and get even more disgusted than when they posted the him or me ultimatum.
The moved post I mentioned above was one of yours.
It looks to me like your post originated in Terrestrial, was moved to Telestial with a moved tag on it, and then relocated to Prison (no one knows why) without a moved tag on it when it should have remained in Telestial to start with.
It's a little weird and confusing, and some folks are going to think they're being messed with.
NL already
feels like he's being messed with and he apparently wanted a hearing about it. Then he has to search all over hell's half acre to find his post down here in no man's land where he's lost it's visibilty.
If a poster gets fed up and leaves, that's totally a personal choice. I just don't like to see posters get pissed off, throw up their hands and leave because the situation gets compounded when they feel they're being (unintentionally) jerked around when something could have been done to ease the tension a little.
