gramps wrote:When I arrived at the mission home in Epsom, Surrey, circa 1978, I met Elder Andersen. He was the Mission President's secretary at the time. The events mentioned above had happened shortly before I arrived.
He looked terrible. He was thin, his pants falling off him. Really, he looked bad. But, he was the nicest guy. And I really enjoyed talking with him.
I hope he is doing well now.
WTF??
Wasn't he just recently RAPED?? Why would he still be there on the mission?
I know I will get flamed here for the following but here goes...
Perhaps he did get involved with the crazy bitch and ended up doing the nasty with her and felt soooo horrible about it, being a Mormon missionary and all, that he made up the story to cover it up?
He wouldn't be the first one to use that to get out of something...
And further, he was 6'4" for cripessakes! Even if he were handcuffed to the bed how could a little lady get him to do anything?
If all she did was strip him naked and rub her genitalia on his flaccid penis, does that constitute raping him?
And for Monkier, if it were such a horrific ordeal for him there is nothing anyone could do to cause an erection.
I just do not see how a tall strong man could have sex with a small woman, with a full erection, to the point that he ejaculates, and call that rape. Now an unwilling woman CAN be forced to engage in sexual intercourse, but c'mon folks if the guy is flaccid it will not go in.
Now if all she got was rubbing on his flaccid penis, I might call that sexual assault.
Ok FLAME ME.