schreech wrote:liz3564 wrote:You still haven't explained how that is harmful.
Are you asking:
1) Why is it harmful to teach people that they need to go to the Mormon temple, have someone reach under your clothes and smear oil on different parts of your body (without informing them first) THEN dress up in "cosplay" outfits, participate in a secret pseudo-masonic ritual/pantomime (that they have never seen or been allowed to discuss because its too "sacred") in which they pretend to be different people in a room full of people pretending to be different people while making covenants (that they were not told about beforehand) in order to become a god and in order to be with their family forever in the highest kingdom of elohim?
Or are you asking:
2)Why is it harmful to wear symbolic reminders of your religion?
If 1), then I can point you to dozens (if not hundreds) of people's experiences with the LDS temple that led them to believe that the LDS church, that they had been taught and believed to be true, is a sham/cultish/disturbing/uninspired/evil/make-believe/a masonic-ripoff/etc...including my own...
I was asking #2. ;-)
For the record, Screech, I am sorry that your experience with the temple was so emotionally painful for you. I had a very good friend in college who had gotten married the year before. She actually walked me through everything before I went through the temple, so I knew exactly what to expect. I will always be grateful to her for that. I did the same thing with my daughter. I am glad that the changes which were made happened. My personal feeling is that the current temple ceremony is much more spiritual with the new changes than the old one. There is no more touching in the initiatory, either.
My point in this discussion has been more in general terms of various religious worship. In my opinion, all religions have different types of rituals. Some more than others. I think that the reason the temple ceremony seems so "out of place" with the rest of LDS worship is because, frankly, LDS Church services are so pablum.
The Catholic Church, for example, is very rich with pomp and circumstance. When I attended a Palm Sunday service at a friend's Catholic congregation, it was quite a spectacle....beautiful music...everyone waving their little mini palm tree branch on cue!
In Judaism, have you ever attended a bar mitzvah or a briss?
The LDS temple is the only place where any type of symbolism or ceremony occurs. But put into perspective of other religions, I really don't see it, particularly in its current form, as being anymore negative to society at large than any other type of deeply religious symbolic ceremony.