why me wrote:The reason why the TBMs leave is because they often are insulted on this board. It is as simple as that. The board is a good board, but the posters tend to gang up on the TBMs and then they leave. The TBMs are insulted, mocked and looked down upon. Lets face it...it is not a great place for TBMs. But it is a good place for you and for others who have your point of view.
The reason TBM's leave is due to eventually understanding their arguments are built on spoon-fed lies that they simply cannot defend with sound logic/reason. Take Simon Belmont for example... remember when he came in with guns blazing claiming to know more about Joseph Smith that anyone else? He started out presenting the ruse he was actually answering the questions and presenting a valid argument, but now he's reduced to a drive-by cynic that states things he can't back up with anything other than "pro-Mormon" data, which is inherently flawed. He contributes nothing of substance anymore, but the giant magnifying glass he holds up to be seen keeps him hanging around... it will eventually not be enough to make him stay.
The inverse of your point whyme, can be found on other LDS boards that dogpile on anyone who asks the wrong question. The moderation is so weighted that one must tone down the truth in order to stay away from being banned. That doesn't happen here, but human nature will dictate that people who wish to form cliques will do so, and if someone like Stem who begs for attention (remember the "should Stem stay or should Stem go" thread?) throws the first stone, the end result is this thread. While some of it has been too mean in my opinion, "chumps" in the OP pretty much set the stage.