http://www.smblogsites.com/marincountypsych/?p=24Some highly successful people subsequently become miserable, self-destructive, or self-defeating. They might experience anxiety or depression, overindulge in alcohol or substances, or engage in behaviors that risk their relationships or their own life. If humans strive to achieve their ideals, then it’s curious why one would have such experiences once an ideal is achieved? We witness this repeatedly in the case of celebrities and public figures who are subjected to humiliation, both self-imposed as well as a result of being discovered by others. Along with high success comes notoriety, where others look in at the successful person and may, in some cases, have a desire to see that person collapse.
Chicks get scared when a guy threatens them, Guy's don't want to feel overpowered when an Alpha comes around, so Looser Guys will use the negative aspects of the Alpha's success as a means to intimidate the woman into giving sex.
It's happened to me for the last time... the woman I pick
will walk away from a Guy who's whispering threats, and using the horror stories about my loved ones as threats, If she thinks she's going to be hurt by some other guy she might find
me throwing the fists for a change.