liz3564 wrote:Stem wrote:I don't do that to people.
My point about enacting the Ignore feature is twofold:
1. You are not going to change people. Posters here are going to interact the way they will interact. And, like it or not, the "free speech" environment here, which has both advantages and disadvantages, does allow for hostilities to occur.
2. You basically have a choice...kind of like free agency.You can choose to interact with certain folks, while simply ignoring others, either by using the Ignore feature, which shrinks their responses so you don't have to read them unless you click on them, or, you can simply skip over the reading of certain individuals, like you have admitted to doing with Scratch.
Since the Ignore feature is available, and the tenor of Shades' board is very clear, I honestly think it is a little silly to continually whine about negativity. You and Why Me are the biggest offenders of this. The problem is, it is kind of like "the boy who cried wolf". When there is a constant complaint about the known tenor of the board, then it basically falls on deaf ears. Then, unfortunately, when there is a REALLY SEVERE crisis, even if it is valid, there is a danger of it being unnoticed based on the messenger.
I am not saying any of this to attack you, Stem, or be mean in any way. I like you; you know that.
But basically, the reason I created my own little private board was because I had no desire to change Shades' board; I like Shades board, am a Moderator here, and accept it for what it is. However, I wanted my own little corner of the Internet where I could conduct discussions my way.
No one is stopping you from doing the same! I will even help you if you are interested in starting a board. I can give you advice on software, etc.
I appreciate it. I hope you realize I get your position and respect it. My view is a bit different. While I see there is a use for ignore, I prefer to give people chance after chance after chance. That's my view.
I have no interest in starting a board. My interest is clear--I want the walls built up that distinguish the sides to crash down. I don't like the anger here, and I don't appreciate the hostility by LDS shown on the MDD board, even though I have vented a time or two about treatment here over there. Over there I'm not free to offer such a perspective as I do here. So I don't busy myself there. I actually like it here. And I don't mind getting the brunt of anything. I'm here to understand the "other's" perspective. Honestly I like Kish' perspective on many things so I read his posts. I like DJ"s perspective, so I read his posts. I know actual serious conversation won't happen with DJ, but I still try and often get frustrated. I'm eager to figure it out more, though.