DocCamNCforMe wrote:(and what in the world is he doing hanging out with racists? do you really want me to believe this was the very first time he was exposed to their racism... ?)
Did you miss my point that it was an invitation from a casual friend? Yes, he's a pretty popular kid and this generates a lot of new invitations for him, all the time. This was the first invitation to this person's home, where the casual friend engaged in far different practices than what was acceptable at school. That happens here a lot in suburban Jersey. You would fit right in. Needless to say, this experience led to my son not ever going to this kid's home again.
...or was he put on the spot because he had a non-white friend there and he couldn't just roll with it?
Are you damned kidding me? Yes, he was put on the spot. What do you mean "he couldn't roll with it"? I told you what he did, so If by "roll with it," you mean do something different like laugh it off, let his friend leave in an uber, and party with his new racist friends, then no, he chose not to "roll with it."
He obviously responded with far more integrity than you are capable of mustering.
doc wrote: Is there some sort of hierarchical chart I can refer to when trying to check my privilege, what jobs I should be pursing, how much money I should be giving the government for redistribution, what kinds of good thoughts I should possess when it comes to me taking care of my own, and how much we should hold non-whites and non-males to account for actions that are incongruent with a civil society?
No chart, just integrity.
doc wrote:Imma hold onto that sweet, sweet, sweetass advantage as much as I can and use it to my benefit as often as I can.
thankfully, I have raised my son to be better than that.