Perfume on my Mind wrote:Jersey Girl wrote:Yes, I was describing a nature vs nurture dynamic. Tell me, if you will, how my biological makeup is my greatest influence. Since we're picking me apart and all.
Well, I'm not picking on you specifically; I believe everyone is more influenced by their biology than their environment.
While I agree with you that this is largely true, I still think that environment is far from insignificant. Yet I also think some people are more malleable to environmental influences than others, but this is, again, subject to one's biology.
Why do I think that? Lots of reasons, really. For one thing, I grew up in a family with lots of kids. We all grew up in the same basic environment, and yet were are all our own person. Some of us turned out secular, and some still go to church. What's the difference, if not our specific biology?
Based on twin studies I have read about, I agree that this is generally true. Studies of identical, orphaned twins who were separated soon after birth and raised separately, without even knowing about each other until they accidently found each other after achieving adulthood, often turn out much more (sometimes even amazingly more) similar to each other in almost every way, including personality and temperament, and religious, music, occupational, political, sports, food and even spouse preferences, than non-identical siblings raised together in the same family their entire childhood.
Why do I consider myself conservative and my brother considers himself liberal? Nobody taught us explicitly to be one way or the other. It's what's emerged as we've grown older, despite having very similar life experiences.
Though I no longer consider myself strongly conservative, and consider myself leaning more towards progressive and liberal, I can understand why you consider yourself conservative, though I agree with you far more often than not. I very seriously doubt, however, that the likes of subgenius and ajax would agree that you even remotely conservative! I imagine (and hope) that you and your liberal brother are not so different from each other that you no longer like and respect each other.
There's that old saying, When the student is ready, the teacher appears. To me, that's saying that we are influenced by our environment at the very moment we choose to be, and not one second before.
This is probably quite compatible with everything else said in this post.
