YouTuber Alyssa Grenfell Has Cost The Church 2.4 Million Dollars

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Re: YouTuber Alyssa Grenfell Has Cost The Church 2.4 Million Dollars

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MG 2.0 wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 10:47 pm
Why do you think that secular Americans dislike Mormons more than other groups?
You're being dishonest, here.

The survey is of Americans--not secular Americans. But, then, you know that.

However, as to why Mormons may be disregarded by many Americans, read your own linked article. The last paragraph offers some suggestions:

"But here’s something that all Mormons can do, and it doesn’t involve politics: it would help if we stopped regarding ourselves as the finest people on the planet. We ought to take a long, hard look at the fact that we voted our own group tops in this research. It’s one thing to be proud of our religious group and its teachings, but it’s another thing entirely to communicate, as many Mormons seem to, that we feel we have a monopoly on religious truth and strong families. A dose of humility is in order here."

I know you don't like to put time and effort into you posts, but you should at least read the things that you, yourself, link to.
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malkie wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 10:03 pm
OMG, Morley - I'm sure that, until now, you thought that your opinions were the same as MG's.

This news must be crushing for you.
Ha! You're right! I am glad that he clarified that for me. I feel like blinders have been lifted from my eyes.
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MG 2.0 wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 10:47 pm
Rivendale wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 10:22 pm
Mormons come in last below Muslims and Atheists. https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/20 ... catholics/. A soon to be trillion dollar organization isn't making much headway anywhere other than Africa.
Another link that is helpful although possibly outdated:

https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/Florida ... erica.html

Why do you think that secular Americans dislike Mormons more than other groups? Not that I have experienced that in any way here. :lol:

Regards,
MG
I don't know. Many apologists have said polygamy is at the heart of the issue. There is also confusion over the Amish and Mormons as well as many other splinter groups. Others claim the missionary program is intrusive. People who look at the issues are increasingly angry with the untapped wealth specifically during a world wide pandemic. The blatant building of temples despite humanitarian efforts being more of an immediate emergency need. Then their is the superiority stereotype. Then there is the dishonesty of the leaders. Then there is the doctrine that supports maniacs that kill their kids that never gets addressed but people who touch the third rail of historical issues get the hatchet. This up, down, sideways tactics of leadership leaves people wondering what the hell is this weird group doing? And the history of Mormonism is replete with this pattern making it hard to dismiss as doctrinal cancer.
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I don't dislike Mormons: I pity them because they've been deceived by lies.

They are so confidently wrong, like flat-Earthers or Biblical literalists.

How can you not pity them?
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MG 2.0 wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 9:57 pm
Dr. Shades wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 6:03 am
It doesn't matter what you replace it with, because you have no control over it whatsoever. Or do you think that merely believing in something magically makes it come true?
I think that what we do actually matters. In the long run. Not just in the here and now. We may differ on that point.

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??? It looks like you've changed the subject from beliefs to actions. Here's what you originally wrote:

"Belief in the supernatural doesn't come very easily for many of us. The question is, what are you going to replace it [i.e., belief in the supernatural] with that takes you into the realm of existence after death and continued eternal progress?"

My point is that replacing one supernatural belief with another supernatural belief won't change the reality of what does--or doesn't--happen to our consciousnesses after we die.
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MG 2.0 wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 9:37 pm
I Have Questions wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 8:23 pm
Do you personally need to believe that a supernatural deity will be cross with you in order for you to behave in a considerate and moral fashion?
Let me flip this and ask you a question. Do you personally believe that you are accountable to God for your actions while living and breathing on planet earth? If so, do you think that God would encourage you to behave in a considerate and moral fashion? If not, why?

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I asked you a simple question, directly related to the assertion you were making. Why have you avoided answering it?

I think it’s because you realise that your answer, were you to give one, would undermine the assertion you’re trying to make. If you were to answer Yes - you do need to believe that a supernatural deity will be cross with you in order for you to behave in a considerate and moral fashion, that suggests you are fundamentally an immoral and inconsiderate person by nature. If you were to answer No - you do not need to believe that a supernatural deity will be cross with you in order for you to behave in a considerate and moral fashion, then that refutes your own assertion.

People who need to believe in a supernatural thing to whom they are accountable, seem to lack the adult skill of taking responsibility for their own actions, and acting accordingly within the realm of being a good, considerate, moral person. I don’t need to believe in a Sky Daddy in order for me to behave in society as a good, considerate, moral person. How about you?
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Probably most people don’t always strictly need to believe in any higher power in order to do the right thing, but how hard it is to do the right thing can vary a lot. Sometimes it’s easy. Sometimes it’s difficult.

It may also differ among people. Perhaps some people are just so naturally righteous that they will act nobly even at great risk to their lives. Perhaps other people are so morally handicapped that it takes great conscious effort for them to muster the least shred of decency.

Everybody could use some help, sometimes. Sincerely believing in a higher power who will reward or assist right actions, and hinder or punish wrong ones, is bound to tip the scales at least somewhat. People don’t always act rationally or follow their principles perfectly, but people’s beliefs about future consequences or circumstances do affect what they do, at least somewhat and sometimes.

If there is any effect at all of belief upon action then some value in religious belief has to be recognized. Religiously based morality isn’t simply one way of being moral that’s no better than others, because whatever other aids or inducements to moral behavior may also exist, besides belief in a higher power, those other aids are also available to believers. The buff to virtue from faith stacks with others.

The amount of value one concedes to belief here does not have to be decisive. Perhaps it’s greater than zero but not great enough to outweigh costs or risks that come with belief—such as the risk of ending up doing bad things because one believes God commands them.

And the amount of belief that it takes to give a boost to moral fortitude is probably not much more than a vague hope. Moral returns on religious investment may diminish quite fast with increasing investment. I’m not sure I have enough experience with either firm and detailed conviction or heroic virtue to judge that.

Denying any weight at all to the argument that religious belief can bolster morality doesn’t make sense to me, though. It seems to be a legitimate point as far as it goes.
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Wed Aug 20, 2025 11:24 am
Denying any weight at all to the argument that religious belief can bolster morality doesn’t make sense to me, though. It seems to be a legitimate point as far as it goes.
I don’t think it is. People also use “religion” to bolster immorality in large numbers. Lots of bad things have been done in the name of religious belief. I know a number of practicing, believing, temple recommend carrying Mormons who have demonstrated they cannot be trusted to do the right thing when they think only God is watching. A moral and good Mormon Bishop, when alerted via a confession that an adult is abusing children, would not hide behind clergy penitent privilege and not do everything they could physically do to stop that abuse. So is that an example of religious belief bolstering morality? It’s the Mormon religion that influences that moral and good person to not do the right thing in the eyes of their God. So it’s not the religious belief that’s the determining factor in whether a person acts with morality or not. It’s the person. So I’ll be very interested in MG answering the question as to what it is that stops him from being immoral and bad. If it’s his religion then he is saying he is naturally an immoral and bad person.
I think he’s suggested before that the only thing that’s stopped him sleeping around and cheating on his wife was the belief that God would be cross with him. Or at least he’s suggested that’s what people do when they aren’t religious. But there’s plenty examples of people holding religious beliefs AND sleeping around cheating on their wives. Mormonism’s founder did exactly that - and guess what, MG2.0 and most other Mormons are okay with that.
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Physics Guy wrote:
Wed Aug 20, 2025 11:24 am
Probably most people don’t always strictly need to believe in any higher power in order to do the right thing, but how hard it is to do the right thing can vary a lot. Sometimes it’s easy. Sometimes it’s difficult.

It may also differ among people. Perhaps some people are just so naturally righteous that they will act nobly even at great risk to their lives. Perhaps other people are so morally handicapped that it takes great conscious effort for them to muster the least shred of decency.

Everybody could use some help, sometimes. Sincerely believing in a higher power who will reward or assist right actions, and hinder or punish wrong ones, is bound to tip the scales at least somewhat. People don’t always act rationally or follow their principles perfectly, but people’s beliefs about future consequences or circumstances do affect what they do, at least somewhat and sometimes.

If there is any effect at all of belief upon action then some value in religious belief has to be recognized. Religiously based morality isn’t simply one way of being moral that’s no better than others, because whatever other aids or inducements to moral behavior may also exist, besides belief in a higher power, those other aids are also available to believers. The buff to virtue from faith stacks with others.

The amount of value one concedes to belief here does not have to be decisive. Perhaps it’s greater than zero but not great enough to outweigh costs or risks that come with belief—such as the risk of ending up doing bad things because one believes God commands them.

And the amount of belief that it takes to give a boost to moral fortitude is probably not much more than a vague hope. Moral returns on religious investment may diminish quite fast with increasing investment. I’m not sure I have enough experience with either firm and detailed conviction or heroic virtue to judge that.

Denying any weight at all to the argument that religious belief can bolster morality doesn’t make sense to me, though. It seems to be a legitimate point as far as it goes.
Immanuel Kant would agree with you I think. After making morality a matter of pure logic and unsure of the value of emotive-based living, such as feeding your kid because affection for the child, he came up with his pragmatic argument for God. After all of this, there must be some kind of reward for living a good life.

I don't buy it. I might be able to agree this much. Belief in a higher power seems universal among primitive cultures and so there must be an evolutionary advantage to it. At least for primitive people. Not saying we're much beyond the primitive stage if you look at right-wing politics. But, I think belief is wrapped up tightly with tribalism. People like myself as a child absolutely did do "the right thing" many times due to God, but that's things like, try not to be bored at church. Read the scriptures. Pay tithing. Don't swear or tell bad jokes.

I remember as a child there was a shadowy figure of our neighborhood, his name was Steve. He was the older brother of my best friend who lived up the street. We were Mormon and they were Baptist, and our families were equally devout within their faiths. We invited them to Mormon functions and they invited us to Baptist functions, we went once hoping they would come to ours in return, which they didn't. Anyway, I'd see Steve now and again walking around the neighborhood with his long hair and a beard. I never remember him being at my friends house. I'd never spoke to him. I remember my dad telling my mom one afternoon that he picked up Steve, who had been hitchhiking, and took him somewhere. Said he was really friendly. Later, my mom told us he had joined the Peace Corps.

Steve's broader social awareness most certainly correlated with his disdain for traditional views of God, though I never discussed this with him. Just a guess. While at the same time, the goodness of his parents and even their faith likely played some kind of role in him making a positive rebellious choice rather than a negative one. So I think where I'm at here, to the extent God belief makes people better, it's through the channel of tribalism to the extent that tribalism makes people better. Terribly mixed. Beyond that it's hard to say. Perhaps there is a spark of culturally instilled God belief within the Steves out there, or perhaps God was a placeholder for something else that is more readily implemented by people post traditional mythology. Evolution is pretty indifferent, it's very possible that belief in God helps morality though that claim is more likely circular.
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Rivendale wrote:
Tue Aug 19, 2025 10:22 pm
Mormons come in last below Muslims and Atheists. https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/20 ... catholics/. A soon to be trillion dollar organization isn't making much headway anywhere other than Africa.
Two of the more interesting callouts from the survey:

First, only one of the religious groups has a net favorable view of Mormons, Catholics at a measly +2%. Yes the unaffiliated are much more prone to unfavorable responses but it isn't like Mormons are winning the hearts and minds of everyone else. As for why the unaffiliated have such strong feelings, my guess would be that politics has the biggest role in that.

Second (and maybe more importantly, or at least funnier in my opinion), Mormons are the only group who's overall favorability doesn't improve when a respondent knows a member of the religion. I know the authors in MG's link suggest bridge building as a key focus, but so far the data hasn't really backed up that assertion.

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